Happy new year and all that jazz. As a friend pointed out, January 1 is such an arbitrary deadline to … More
Category: Mid-Life
How did I get to be this age?
This Is Not a Christmas Post
Yeah, yeah, I know it’s technically New Year’s Day. I’ll get to that at some point. You should know by … More
An Offer I Can’t Refuse
I have spoken before about all the “helpful“ garden advice about deterring animals from munching on, digging in, and running … More
We’re Going Crackers
My friend Beth and I often share our triumphs and defeats, our peri- and post menopausal crabbiness, and we are … More
Empathy Is Wicked Hahd
I’m reading an Irish book about empathy; it’s called Ionbha: the Empathy Book for Ireland. The proceeds from the book … More
Sandy’s Lady of the Dance
You all know I go dancing on many Sundays to 70s and 80s music if I’m lucky, and to 90s … More
Can I Hear You Now?
I originally published this in 2016, and I was telling some new friends about this hearing test saga. I can’t … More
You Can’t Save White People
I am dedicating this blog to my friend Beth, who I love to make laugh, and she does me the … More
Gahden 2023, Here We Come
Technically the season may have started with my hydroponic gahden, which I will blog about soon. Life’s getting in the … More
An Ode to Garfield the Cynical Cat
I was telling this story to a friend, and I thought the ending was quite amusing and she replied, “I’m … More